#90 Cracked and chipped plates. I opened my dishwasher and found a cracked plate. My thought automatically went to a crammed dishwasher and it would not have cracked if it wasn't so crammed. Who would force such thing?
My boyfriend spends more time with me, and I notice things gets broken more often. Boys will be boys I guess, and things are just things, to be replaced and forgotten. I don't have particular attachments to my plates, so I let go, but I am dismayed by how frequent these occurrences have become. Things broke less often before my boyfriend, or have I forgiven myself more?
#91. So here is another thing I am letting go today- my tendency to automatically blaming my boyfriend for every broken things, spills on my table, and spots on the floor. I didn't load the dish washer last night, and I have no idea how the plate got cracked. Unless I saw him purposefully cracked a plate, I can't blame this on him. It is true that it drives me up the wall sometimes that he can cause an "accident" and don't even seem to care and move on.... and I am left resentful. But nothing gets solved by being resentful. So I need to learn to let go.
At the end of the day, I didn't care about that plate, did I?
Happy Wednesday everyone!